I know it really does move you, especially when you realize that there are instances when a guy can't stop a woman from having an abortion. Or maybe the guy accepts it but realizes later what a huge mistake it was.
"What has a man from all the toil and striving of heart with which he toils beneath the sun? For all his days are full of sorrow, and his work is a vexation...There is nothing better for a person than that he should eat and drink and find enjoyment in his toil. This also, I saw, is from the hand of God, for apart from him who can eat or who can have enjoyment?" (Ecclesiastes 2:22-25)